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Companionship: the Secret to Lasting Relationships

Relationships can be sustained through financial support of one another. But, bringing in money is not enough to sustain and maintain a beautiful, passionate and loving relationship.

Relationships are only maintained through extensive loving time spent together. It's the contact and the exchange of feelings and heart warming, rewarding experiences that create sensational relationships.

If you need to revitalize your primary relationship, I suggest that you purchase my e-book, "Sizzling Relationships: the 401(k) of Love."

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If you need to revitalize your deep inner experience and resolve old dilemmas, then acquire the book, "Feeling People." It is the quintessential book for getting you on the right track through deep feeling work.

You cannot maintain and sustain a healthy, compatible, fully companionate relationship if you are still carrying around a universe of unresolved deep feelings. Old issues stand in the way of true companionship and love.

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For a moment, check in with your body and see if you feel cut off from your deeper feelings. If you notice significant blockages, acknowledge them and resolve to go on a significant journey of deep inner cleansing and integration.

There is nothing more beautiful than a companionate relationship between two clear people who are not projecting onto one another old childhood issues.

The divorce rate in this country is at an all-time high. Fatherless homes are now 400 times more prevalent than they were back in the 1960s.

We are seeing a drastic change in the relationship patterns between people who are seeking fulfilling relationships.

There are two things that you can do right now to improve and correct your situation. Do the deep work on yourself and get significant training in building and sustaining relationships.

Don't leave Anything to Chance. The choices that you make now can affect your entire life. By acting responsibly, you can avoid negative consequences and reap the benefits of a beautiful loving life. 

You cannot expect everything in your life to work out perfectly. There are detours, tragedies, disasters and many other things that can derail your directions. Learn to deal and face any challenge that comes your way.

No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Make sure your mistakes teach you something that create a better future for yourself and your loved ones.

Never give up hope, no matter how difficult or painful life can be. Every stage of your development presents a unique and difficult challenge. Get the tools that you need to meet each challenge.

No human being can exist as an island. People need one another. Reach out even if you feel any kind of resistance. Only you are responsible for your resistance. Don't let it hold you back and keep you too safe.

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Like any other individual, you may be spending your life wrestling with difficult issues. My particular therapeutic approach of effective strategies can help you change and become the kind of person that you really want to be. 

Coaching, therapy and counseling with my very powerful strategic methods, can change your life to a point of optimal experiences and ecstatic love. Don't waste time. These powerful methods are things that you will never learn in any school. Let my 45 years of teaching, coaching, counseling and therapy put you in that place where you can actualize what you might have missed the first time around. Decide to get busy and prepare to work hard and benefit from the rewards. You're only an email (phannigphd@att.net) or a phone call (818-882-7404) away from greater happiness, joy, peace, and emotional prosperity. Contact me now. What are you waiting for?

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